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It doesn't matter if your husband is a racecar driver, a guy who constantly works to provide for his family, or a guy who works only enough to get home to his family, a guy who's handy and can fix everything, or a guy who earns enough he hires it done, a man who's quiet and dignified or a man who's the life of the party. No matter what kind of man you have with exceptions of course ~ someone out there is wishing they had a man just like yours. What does it have to do with racing? Well some men race, some hunt, some golf, but consider yourself lucky if this is his favorite side activity. Would you rather have a guy who runs around or who has no passion for life? Life is short, save your battles for those that matter. Perhaps you aren't a fan of racing so you don't support your husband "wasting" his time and money. If you love him and want to keep, consider being his biggest fan! Shouldn't that come naturally!?!? Don't you love seeing him do something he loves, that excites him? Be his cheerleader, better yet be his trophy girl ~ when you're alone with him. Make him feel like he's in the winners circle everyday when he comes home to you! I'm not letting guys off the hook of course it goes both ways, but somebody needs to start. Why do so many people think ~ well what about me, what's in it for me!?!? Why doesn't he do those things for me? First of all, we can't control others, at the end of the day we are responsible only for our own words, deeds, and actions. But if you want a different reaction you need a different action. Be the partner, friend and lover YOU want and you just might get it! Please consider the possibility we are all only human trying the best we can and if you don't pay attention, love him, excite him, take an interest, appreciate the incredible father, husband and man he really is, not perfect, but GOOD, a good man! ~ somebody else might. Speaking of loving your lover ~ I have only ever loved one man, big shout out to you Handsome!! When will you be home for "dinner"? lol